I struggle with hope.
Hope carries the suggestion that there is something wrong with the present. “I hope things will be different.” “I hope I will change.” Or worst of all, “I hope you will change.”
Hope has overtones of discontent. Here is not adequate. Now is not good enough. Something is missing. I am looking forward to a day when things will no longer be as they are.
When I start with a sense of dissatisfaction, it is more difficult to see clearly what is going on in my life and in the world around me. My perceptions are coloured by the judgment that something is wrong.
Hope is restless; it lives in an imagined bright future when everything will be better. So hope is only able to see through the lens of my discontent. Everything today becomes tainted with disapproval.
For hope, the circumstances of today appear to be obstacles to fulfillment and contentment. There is a thin line between hope in the future and frustration in the present. If I project my life into later, I will always resent the details of my life today. If I am always going to live tomorrow when things get better, I never live now.
Is it possible to redeem the concept of hope?
This seems to be a good question to carry through the first week of Advent.
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November 29, 2015 at 12:40 pm
CHRISTINA WATKINS
I like hope. I think of our hope that God (Love) is all in all, that all things work together for good … Maybe for those who love God but I hope for all. For me, hope is faith’s closest cousin. It is close to prayer too. It takes the subjunctive mood. (Verbs of hoping, wishing and praying.)
I hope my husband’s brother’s wife is coping with the fact that her sister killed herself 3 weeks ago. I hope my grandchildren who all lost great aunts and uncles in the Jewish Holocaust will not be poisoned by that fact. I hope I show up and help mend the holes in the world when that is required of me. I hope I have a light heart that can carry serious questions. Thank you, Christopher.
Blessings and hope from the airport in Puerto Vallarta.
From Christina Watkins
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November 30, 2015 at 9:21 am
Enid Y B ackhouse
Perhaps hope is discarding the fetters of discontent ,refusing to look back at previous pain. Then conceiving the possibility that as there is sun behind cloud , so also is there love and kindness that we must first allow to generate in ourselves.from that source which conceived the world.